[post_page_title]She wants them to be part of the family[/post_page_title]
Not only does she want to be selective over where her nanny comes from, rather than her skills, qualifications, and experience, she also wants them to feel like a part of the family.
While this may seem like a nice thing to say, it also places a serious amount of pressure on whatever nanny they do hire. Norland nannies are professional, and nothing is stopping them from being friendly, but it also sets a tough expectation if the rapport isn’t to Meghan’s standard.